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Summersubstoday

5.0 (38) United Kingdom

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Beta. Naturally submissive ("still subby, even after I c*m!")
A devious mind and a total degenerate by any measure.
Kinky for femdom, chastity, edging, orgasm denial, swimsuits among many other things

Prefers content and experiences over physical items

A chatty Kathy but please not just "hi" or "hey" (you'll end up on my wall of "hey")
No unverified/no review accounts thnx!
No AI/anime accounts also either please. If I want catfish, I know where to get it.

Borderline unreasonable with the block bu*ton

Please be verified and have at least one review. If = no then = no reply

If your profile is private then you aren't open for business

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Reviews for Summersubstoday :-

"Universally disliked" - Findom Magazine, March 2024
"Most blocked account on ATW" - s** workers monthly, Jan 2025
"That idiot c*nt" - Allthingswow! magazine, Feb 2025
"Pretentious idiot" - Splosh Monthly, Jan 2024

About Summersubstoday

78 Followers - 106 Following - 16 Badges

Gender: Male

Age: 40-50

Joined: 1 year ago

Profile Visits: 9775

What I'm looking for

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How many times have you left a less than 5 star review for a buyer/seller?

So far...never Less than twice Less than five times More than five times..

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no but seriously though, why do we refer to sexual things as "dirty" or "filthy" ?
"Dirty films", "Filthy fantasies", "a dirty weekend away" ?

It's almost as if the very fabric of our language is designed to keep a layer of shame and guilt on top of our sexualities?

Why do we do this? When in fact, to have a sexuality is entirely nothing but human?

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Anecdotally I'm seeing/hearing about a "buy British" theme among certain buyers here at the moment 🤣 like, at least twice I've heard of this.

WTF is this? Patriotism taken to a weird level?? Are we going to have to start putting "made in Britain" or "100% British fruit" on pussy pics or something in future like you flag shaggers demand on your hot cross buns in Tesco? 🤣

Whatever next? Tariffs on dick ratings? 🤣

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I wanted the skin on my face to have a matt finish.
So I asked my mate Matt to finish on it.

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🤢 ughhhh.... the bit where you have to actually try and describe your fantasy and what you want though?
Put it into words and explain how you think it should work etc. Where you are basically asking Her to act like you want. It's the hardest part. It makes me feel sick. 🤢 Weapons grade shame.

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Added a new photo > Happy Cake and Cunnilingus day everyone!

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Theres a special place reserved in hell for people who fill their entire calendars at work with meaningless meetings. I'm looking at you - "focus time" / "lunch" people. 🤣

I hope a dominatrix whips you and you don't enjoy it 🤣

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"I think there is a world market for about five sex workers..." - Thomas J. Watson, Chairman of IBM, 1986

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Added a new photo > #fridaynightmemewars "Congratulations Mr and Mrs Stevens, your baby is full of guacamole..."

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Added a new photo > #fridaynightmemewars

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Added a new photo > #fridaynightmemewars - written dick ratings? Oh over there in the bargain bin with the DVDs from 2003 Sharon...

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Japanese Grand Prix this weekend for Formula 1 fans!

Which driver do you think is most likely to wear a chastity device? 🤣🤣

(I know! Body jewelry isn't allowed! It's a fun question! Just...chill out)

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I'm started a sexy content site for project managers in technology.

I'm going to call it "Only Plans"

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"I know EXACTLY how men work! If I write 'hey' and nothing else, his penis will automatically become hard! He'll automatically look at my store and buy everything from it within 18 minutes. He'll then be owned by me and will send me his life savings. With the exception of 'hi' , 'hey' is the magic word all these hoe-men need!!"

Ok its kind of a complaint 🤣 but a cheeky gentle one! 🤣

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I wrote a good post, but it's 22 pages front and back and it's too good to be used as the great Laura Marling once wrote.

Just let me say, don't think all buyers don't "get it." As a seller, you don't have the monopoly on finding it hard fitting in here and finding space for it in your life. You don't have the monopoly on feeling vulnerable, ashamed or dealing with bad communication. Buyers deal with this too. Many of us hide ourselves from the rest of the world at the same time, including those nearest and dearest. I can't put in words the toll it takes.

We aren't all monsters, despite what the radfem posts on social media told you. And many of us aren't a million miles away from your situation.

A good chunk of us see you. A good chunk of us get it. Simply because, many of us are living lives of quiet desperation ourselves.

Let's try and be a team

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Today's new account is Decembers complainer about "instaDommes"

As the great Vanessa Carlton once wrote - "its a carousel my friend"

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Robot sex

Weird, ew Hot I dunno! Why are you asking me?

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A tip, not a complaint!

I don't know about anyone else, but for me, nothing kills a boner quicker than knowing the seller you are working with doesn't really like it and is only doing this because she is really desperate for money?

I know, I know! Times are hard and this is work. And that's what it's about. No one is a robot and theres nothing wrong with being honest. I get it.

Findom and femdom are not charity and if you tell me you are only doing this because your family have no electricity or gas, you aren't actually freely consenting to our interaction? Actually, you are under duress? And if I carry on, it's really a form of abuse? Equally,

I don't know about other buyers, but this makes me so uncomfortable. It's not "good" sex work.

If you are in a situation like that, please, ATW might not be the right thing for you? Please believe me, in the long run, you'll only feel bad about yourself.

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I've written about this here before, but seeing some recent posts, I'll have another go.

I'm in favor of more openness about sex, kinks and sex work. And I'm passionately in favor of the freedom of speech. But with freedom, I think comes responsibility?

If you are involved with sex work (be it, buyer,seller, or something else) I think we've ALL got a responsibility in how we talk with the "normie" world about it?

We have a responsibility to think very carefully about WHO we are talking too and how we explain things. That counts double for legacy media. We need to think about how it's going to be portrayed? Because, its not just one of us who are going to be judged and affected by it - it's the entire scene?

I'm seeing this morning, mainstream news outlets (and their associated comments sections), writing about kink and online sex work - and as usual, not informing and supporting but, once again, doing the rounds of kink shaming, hang ringing and teeth gnashing about those of us who have different sexual tastes. We're, once again, all mentally ill, wrong, disgusting, shameful, dangerous or in need of religion. It doesn't feel very nice.

This isn't unusual though. Kinky people are somewhat "the last ones left back" when it comes to society acceptance. I know this and it's not what bothers me. What bothers me is the fact it was prompted by a sex worker (I believe one who may use this site), talking to a main stream "tabloid" chat show and indulging their "ew! but what about the money?!" routine.

I don't know the motivations for doing this. I do know however, we all suffer as a result.

If you don't take interest in the moralistic argument I'm making, then think of it in terms of money. The more stigma is heaped on us, the more likely we are to disappear into dark corners to get our kinks, rather than open surface sites like ATW. Your £5,000 a week could rapidly become a lot less. I certainly wouldn't want to work with any seller who was prepared to talk about my kinks with a day time talk show for shock value.

So if you are going to talk with the outside world about ATW and what goes on here, ESPECIALLY if its media based, I'd just suggest, (very politely), you think carefully about whether its really necessary and how they are going to position and portray your story.

It isn't just YOU. It's US.

Countdown to this being removed underway 🤣

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I desperately want to start a band called "Creamy Ovulation Panties" 🤣

Just sounds like an awesome band name

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Locked & Loving It: An Introduction to Chastity Kink

It feels to me like chastity is an increasingly popular kink. And, that's good in my opinion because it's also one that I personally love! That said, I haven’t seen many...

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