Thoughts As A Two-Year Buyer On ATW

Buyer Buyers’ Perspective

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So in my last blog I promised I’d be writing more…Well, over a year has pa**ed and nothing was written! So, since I’ve recently reached the two-year mark (another badge woohoo!) I thought I’d write a little something about what I’ve learned since this journey began.

Two years ago, I stumbled upon All Things Worn purely out of curiosity. The whole concept of buying and selling used underwear and socks seemed a bit strange and amusing, if I’m honest. But something about it intrigued me enough to sign up, and once I did, my perspective completely shifted. What I found was a fascinating community that opened me up to a world I never knew existed, and along the way, I discovered parts of myself that I hadn’t explored before.

What started as a light-hearted curiosity quickly turned into a journey of self-discovery that’s been both surprising and enlightening!

There are some incredible sellers here!

One of the first things that really stood out to me was the quality and dedication of some of the sellers on the site. There are genuinely talented and pa**ionate individuals who treat their profile with an incredible level of professionalism. These sellers go above and beyond, not just in terms of the quality of the naughty items & services they offer, but also in how they engage with us buyers. Whether it’s a personal note, attention to detail in customs, or simply the way they handle interactions with respect and discretion, it’s clear that this is more than just a transactional experience for them—it’s a genuine pa**ion.

I’ve been blown away by the effort some sellers put into making each purchase feel special. From custom requests to thoughtful packaging, they turn what could be a simple transaction into a memorable experience. They truly deserve more praise than they already do, because they’ve helped create a space where buyers feel valued and understood, and that’s something worth celebrating.

There are some shifty sellers here too!

Unfortunately, not everyone on the platform is as genuine. Just like any online marketplace, ATW has its share of scammers and less-than-honest sellers. It’s been a learning curve, figuring out how to spot the bad apples. It’s important to do your research, check reviews, and trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. I’ve had a couple of encounters with sellers who promised the world but delivered far less, or in a few cases, nothing at all! It’s disheartening, but it’s also taught me to be more cautious and selective.

These experiences have highlighted the importance of building trust and not rushing into purchases. Luckily, the good sellers far outweigh the bad, but it’s always wise to keep your wits about you. It’s a reminder that while the community is mostly wonderful, it’s still important to stay vigilant.

Building Relationships & Connections is Key

For me, the importance of building genuine connections is pretty crucial. I’ve realised that I’m not just interested in one-off buys or quick transactions. There’s something deeply satisfying about establishing a relationship with a seller, understanding their kinks, and feeling that sense of connection. It’s not just about the items themselves, but the personal touch and the ongoing interaction that make the experience worthwhile.

The sellers who take the time to get to know their buyers, ask questions, and build a rapport are the ones I keep going back to. It’s about more than just a purchase; it’s about feeling seen and understood in a community where your preferences aren’t judged, but embraced.

That sense of connection is what keeps me coming back, and it’s something that has made my time on ATW so much more than just perv shopping. It’s a space where I can be myself and engage with others who share similar interests.

I get to be meeeeeeeeeeee 😊

One of the most significant aspects of All Things Worn for me is that it provides a safe and discreet place to express myself. My partner doesn’t know that I’m on the site, and that’s why it feels like a safe haven where I can explore parts of myself that I can’t express in my everyday life. There’s something incredibly liberating about having a place where I can be completely open without fear of judgement or repercussions. It’s given me the freedom to explore my interests in a way that’s private and secure. This sense of privacy allows me to delve into my dirty curiosities without it ever impacting my marriage. It’s like having a secret world where I can be my true self, away from the roles and responsibilities of daily life!

I’m SUPER Submissive

Before joining the site, I never really considered myself someone who fit into that role. But as I explored more and engaged with different sellers, I found myself drawn to the dynamic of submission. It’s been a shock, to say the least, but also thrilling. Embracing this side of myself has been both challenging and rewarding, and it’s something I’m still navigating.

It’s given me a new perspective on my own desires and how I relate to others. This discovery has been one of the most impactful parts of my time here, and it’s something I continue to explore with curiosity and excitement. It’s amazing how much you can learn about yourself when you’re open to new experiences.

I’m Still Obsessed with High Heels

Anyone who knows me knows about my obsession with high heels—it’s something I’ve written about before. But since joining ATW, that obsession has only grown. The site has given me access to an incredible variety of heels from beautiful women all around the world, and I’ve loved exploring every bit of it. There’s something about the elegance and confidence that heels represent that just captivates me, and being able to connect with sellers who share that pa**ion has only fuelled my interest. It’s not just about the shoes themselves, but the stories and connections that come with them. My love for heels has deepened in ways I never expected, and I’m grateful for the chance to indulge in this pa**ion on such a personal level.

Secretly Dressing Up

Another super surprising discovery has been just how comfortable I am in women’s underwear and nylons. I never would have guessed that I’d enjoy them as much as I do, but the fit and feel are genuinely something else. There’s a softness and delicacy to women’s lingerie that’s simply unmatched, and I’ve come to appreciate it in a way I never thought I would.

There’s a certain freedom in embracing what feels good, regardless of the societal expectations. Secretly wearing women’s underwear and stockings to work has become a small act of self-expression, a way of connecting with my own sense of comfort and ident*ty. It’s not about fitting into a box, but about exploring what makes me feel good!

It's opened up the question now… Does this make me a sissy? Maybe, but honestly, that label doesn’t bother me. I’m just enjoying the comfort and the confidence it brings.

I’m as s**ually Fluid as Anyone Else…And That’s OK

As a man, I’ve grown up with certain expectations about how I’m supposed to feel and behave, but being part of All Things Worn has shown me that there’s so much more to it than rigid labels. My interests, desires, and attractions don’t fit neatly into a box, and I’ve come to embrace that. I’ve realised that it’s perfectly normal to be attracted to a wide range of things, whether it’s a specific item of clothing, a certain s**ual dynamic, or even just the way someone expresses themselves.

This realisation has been incredibly freeing, and there’s a lot of comfort in knowing that I’m not alone in this fluidity, as many buyers and sellers on the site share similar experiences. It’s rea**uring to be part of a community that understands and accepts that.

It’s all part of discovering who you are, and that’s something I’ve really come to appreciate.

Exploring Pup Play & Ownership

As my journey on the site has continued, I’ve started to seriously consider the concept of ownership. It’s not something I ever thought I’d be interested in, but the idea of a long-term, dedicated dynamic is becoming more appealing. I’m drawn to the thought of having a consistent connection with someone who understands my desires and can guide me in pushing them even further. There’s a depth and commitment to the ownership dynamic that intrigues me, and I’m curious to see where it might lead.

And when someone calls me a Good Boy?? Those simple words have a way of making me feel amazing, more than I ever would have imagined. It’s not just about the praise itself, but the validation and the recognition that come with it. Being acknowledged in that way taps into my submissive side in a way that’s incredibly fulfilling, so puppy play has also been something I’m very interested in.

What’s Next?

So, what will the next two years bring? Honestly, I haven’t a clue. But if the past two years are anything to go by, I’m excited to find out. All Things Worn has been a journey of self-discovery, connection, and countless surprises. It’s shown me that there’s a whole world of experiences and ident*ties out there, and that it’s okay to explore them without fear or shame. As I continue on this path, I’m eager to see what new revelations and connections lie ahead. Whether it’s deepening existing relationships, exploring new dynamics, or simply enjoying the comfort of being myself, I know there’s still so much more to discover. And I can’t wait to see where this journey takes me next!

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