How To Secretly Buy Fet**h Content Without Getting Caught!

Buyer Tips For Buyers

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I decided to write some thoughts on how you as a buyer can keep this activity a secret from your nearest and dearest. These are obviously my own experiences and perspectives, based on my own life ‘stages’ and (nowadays) being primarily a buyer of content rather than physical items.

A bit of background on me: I’ve been buying over 4 years, starting two months before lockdown, and my personal life has gone through various stages: living alone, living alone in 2020 Covid lockdowns, moving in with my long-term Other Half during 2021 restrictions and now living together, but I’m still 3-4 days a week working from home.

As I imagine most buyers would do in my position, I’ve not shared my habit with my OH. I appreciate that it might open up doors in our relationship but that’s beyond the scope of this blog post! It is my choice to keep this secret, I’m aware of the risks of being caught (and have had a few close calls) but hope these tips can give you the confidence that you can enjoy activities here in secret!

1. What to buy?

I’m not the daring/risk taker type and given the impact that finding someone else’s c*mmy thong might have on my relationship, physical items are off limits. So it’s digital content only for me, but there’s a lot of variables there.

When I lived alone, a girlfriend experience was my thing. Loads of time to chat and get to know the seller and have some kinky fun too. No issues with the time of day, nobody around to interrupt me, I was furloughed for a while so literally was sat around with nothing to do.

Nowadays, I don’t want to be seen to be on my phone too much and also need to at least appear productive at work. Staying/Getting up for a 2am cam session is out the question. As a result, it’s usually a short sharp hit during the UK working day so live cam/calls and s**ting are my usuals (I’m a terrible s**ter btw). Custom content works well if you’re not needing an immediate fix. Cloud drives of content can be manageable too - but you’d possibly want to keep any links or downloaded items well buried in a relatively private place on your device.

It will certainly be the case that the seller has a life and isn’t sat around waiting for you… if your schedules mean you need to fix a future date or wait a while then believe me it’s definitely worth waiting for. Good communication is key. There may be some sellers where times just won’t line up for live things - time zones/working patterns/family life getting in the way - this is when customs could a good subst*tute.

2. Seller selection

This answer hasn’t really changed throughout the last 4 years but is probably obvious guidance!

Once you know what you want, ATW makes it easier to find who you want to work with. Gents- please do yourself a favour and write at least a short bio. The girls here are awesome, but they’re not mind readers. Even saying what you want, how you pay, the times you are active are minimums. If you have a preference to location/age/body type, then maybe that would be helpful too. It helps save a lot of time with sellers when you’re discussing that purchase. Most sellers like to read it too and should stop you if they can’t provide what you want - it’s really not in their interest to talk to non-buyers.

Following the sellers you’re interested in also makes it easy to shortlist sellers and also gives you a personalised dash, so you don’t have to block members or scroll through loads of pages to find what you want. Personally, I check the seller lists rather than the main dash, and if a (new) seller walks into my DMs with what I feel is a generic message or a “want to buy my [something I’m not interested in]” it’s an ignore. I haven’t got time to chat with no intention of a transaction, let alone engage with scammers/timewasters. If a seller says they read your bio, then they get the fast lane!

Time restraints may also mean you do business with a lower number of sellers. Variety is the spice of life but if you have limited time, you don’t wanna waste it and so consider having a small group of sellers who you know offer what you want and you can quickly contact to get your fix. Plus, sellers love loyal/regular buyers!

3. Payment methods

How easy it is to keep this side of things private will depend on how closely you and your OH’s finances are intertwined...!

As a singleton I had no cares or concerns but now it’s not as straightforward.

If you only have joint accounts, then it may be very difficult. If you’ve only got your own credit card, then possibly KinkCoins and Amazon vouchers would work - a**uming it’s your personal non-family-linked Amazon account. What would you say when your OH is trying to find when you bought that air-fryer on Amazon, and they have to scroll through pages of gift cards? If you only have a credit card, then other pages might be good but they may likely take a cut so you may pay higher prices. I’d not recommend using PayPal or CashApp with a credit card - it counts as a cash withdrawal and likely lead to interest charges and a knock to your credit score.

If you have more independence and a separate bank account then it’s probably easy street, just bear in mind you likely need to give your real name out so might have anonymity/privacy issues.

4. Device management

Even as a singleton I was careful - after meeting a work colleague for drinks in a hotel and he gets his phone out to see where’s good for food and his browser opens up on a porn site - keep that history deleted, use a VPN, all that good stuff.

Now it’s more important than ever! If you have a device for buying/content that you can keep separate I’d recommend this. Tech is wonderful but having shared accounts/devices can make life awkward. Make sure content doesn’t automatically sync to devices/cloud drives/camera rolls and the same for apps that you download. If cam/calls are what you want, then consider not using your personal accounts but setting up burner ones. Make sure you’re not hooked up to your Bluetooth speaker that your OH has with them when you finally access that content or make that call!

I would a**ume the same precautions apply to physical items- be careful with where you ask them to be delivered to, anonymous packaging, use ParcelShop drops and so on.

There’s probably points I’ve missed but thinking about how I do business here I thought this covered the main points. The inspiration for this post came from @PurpleTulip who’s post on being a secret seller resonated with me and I thought I’d give the buyers view to the same issues!

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