How ATW Helped Me Discover More Kinks Than I Knew I Had
By LadyNorth
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Hello,
My online name is Lady North. This is the first online blog I've ever written anywhere, so I apologize in advanced if it's not the best. I haven't been on ATW all that long, at the time of writing this, I just passed five months. In the short amount of time that I have been here, I have discovered a wonderful supportive community and a wonderful world of panties, fetishes, kinks and so much more. Where do I begin...My normal everyday life is pretty vanilla for the most part. I work as a housecleaner by day. I do have what I refer to as my "content partner" but he knows his limits very well and kink play really isn't his thing. Now many of you are probably thinking, "why not get a more extreme content partner, or a Dom?" to fulfill my kinky needs. But handing over that kind of control to someone for me requires a level of trust that comes from years of knowing each other. I'm personally not comfortable giving over that control to just anyone. I digress.
So, what brought me to ATW? A joke of selling feet pictures. And that's not a crack at those who sell feet pictures, this was an inward hatred that fueled this type of thinking. First, we need to rewind back a bit prior to ATW. I was on another website, it doesn't matter which, but I made an account on that site as a complete joke. It was only a joke to me because I had absolutely had no self-confidence or self-esteem. And I just thought, no one is going to buy anything from me. Then slowly but surely, I started to make sales and things weren't so much of a joke to me anymore, I did that for a little bit until someone had mentioned ATW. They thought it would be something I'd be interested in. The next thing I knew, I was looking on google to see what ATW was all about. After researching it, I decided to sign up right then and there because I knew I'd be comfortable doing it, as I have thought about, and wanted to sell my panties for many years. I just couldn't ever find the right avenue.
I have slowly been exploring my kinks over the last Ten plus years. When I first came to ATW, I had three kinks that I would mention every time I was asked, "What are your kinks?" I'd answer with Bondage, impact play and humiliation (giving) not receiving. As I spent more time on ATW, I would notice posts in the dash describing content for JOI's, SPH, CBT, etc. It piqued my interest to what these things were and with that, I began to delve deeper into my kinks and my own mind and found things such as cuckolding, this is something I very much get turned on by. The thought of someone watching an inch away by my command, almost makes me cum on the spot. I also found I enjoy JOI's, they just come to me naturally. And I find the experience of each one new and interesting in the sense that, the scene or script varies from client to client. It's very exciting and I have found myself wet after JOI's more than once. Another kink I found out I had due to JOI's is, I have a kink for watching someone cum. Not just that, the lead up to, and even the "Thank you, Mistress" that comes after. That's something I was not aware got my motor running. In addition to that, I have found myself learning new skills that I enjoy. Including learning/training in the unique art of being a Domme. The loving bond that forms between a Domme and an obedient and loyal sub is something I could dig on. I guess overall, I would say I knew I was a Domme from a very young age. I used to ride horses and when I would sit at home, I'd remember holding my crop in my hand and feeling the braided leather under my hand. Something about it just excited me.
In the kink world, I suppose I would be considered a "switch". Because for the right man, I can be completely submissive and bow to his every whim. But this is not my normal in my vanilla life, I'm very in control and responsible for helping several people to make sure their needs are met. But I find the release of just letting go and having someone else take control almost better than the orgasm itself.....Nawh, haha, but you get my point.
The whole point I'm trying to get to here is that, without ATW. I wouldn't have ever found certain things out about my own kinks and needs. I also wouldn’t be able to express myself the way I can on ATW. This platform has the most amazing tight-knit community I have yet to come across. Where you can express and explore your true inner desires. Believe it or not, it helps you to become a happier person. I know I have. Keep exploring your kinks and always keep an open mind, that would be my best advice. Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Yours truly ;),
LadyNorth
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